WORLD'S TOP BENEFITS OF BEING IN MARRIAGE...

Marriage makes you live longer

One of the ways that getting married improves your life is by making it last longer. Various studies have indicated that happily married men tend to outlast their single counterparts. For example, a 2006 study performed by University of California researchers contended that single people are five times more likely to die of infectious disease, nearly 40% more likely to die of heart disease and twice as likely to die accidentally. Other studies suggest that the rate of mortality is a whopping 250% higher among single men than it is among married men.

Marriage increases your earning power

You know that big-screen TV you've been saving for? Well, if you were married, you'd probably own it by now. Being married means sharing expenses and splitting the costs of major purchases. You cynics out there gripe about the money women cost you, but the money you'd spend on dinner dates and the occasional gift is dwarfed by the prospect of having an extra income in the household. Marriage means you can afford the things you could never afford on your own; it means a better home, a better car, a better vacation, and cooler stuff.

Marriage gives you a platform to build your bloodline on

Technically you don't need to be married to have a family, but marriage is still the standard method for starting a family. The nuclear family, despite its flaws, remains a sought-after model. That's why having a kids is another argument in my top reasons to get married. Being a father is a dimension of manhood that just about every guy wants to experience -- and marriage is the most stable and secure environment in which to start a family.

Marriage prevents you from dying alone

Sure, you're on a hot streak right now, dating 20-year-old yoga instructors and baristas, but we both know that's not going to last forever. How's being single going to work out for you when you're 60, when you have hair in all of the wrong places and no one can stand to look at you? Marriage is an investment in your future. Sure, you sacrifice some of your sweet single years, but in exchange you get to make a long-term investment in one person, building a deep, abiding love that has the potential to last a lifetime.

Marriage makes you more attractive

Married men are more attractive to other women. You can take this to the bank. Now, am not suggesting that you should get married purely because it will make it easier to score with other women, but we are suggesting that marriage makes you appealing to the opposite sex. Getting attention from beautiful women feels good; it's a confidence booster. Plus, when you go out with all of your single buddies, all of the hot women will be hitting on you. Who's laughing now?

Marriage brings financial benefits

There are numerous financial benefits associated with matrimony. For starters, there are tax breaks for married couples as well as for families. Getting married might also mean getting access to things like her premium health insurance plan. Like it or not, society is designed to make life easier for married couples. If you're single, you're out of luck. That's another argument in my top reasons to get married.

Marriage means more sex

Married men have more sex than single men do. It's a fact -- supported by study after study. A study done by the Kinsey Institute, for example, suggests that 23% of non-married men periodically go a year without sex, while only 1% of married men experience 12-month dry spells. Similarly, while 19% of single guys have sex two to three times a week, 36% of married men have sex that often. So, while single guys are out at the clubs, spending their money just to get a girl's attention, married men are home having sex with their wives.

Marriage means better sex

One night stands are exciting because of the thrill of the chase, granted, but often -- too often -- once the two of you get naked, you find yourselves fumbling and bumbling and unable to anticipate each others’ moves. Married couples know each other; they have a feel for each others’ bodies and are aware of their partner's fantasies. Consequently, married sex is better than single sex. Further, a long, stable relationship lends itself to sexual experimentation. Admit it; there are things you'd love to try in bed that you've never told anyone because you were afraid of being judged. But in a long-term relationship founded on trust, you can give voice to your innermost desires.

Married people are happier

A recent study done at an Australian university shows that married men are happier than single men. In fact, married men are 135% more likely to report a high happiness score than single men. That's an astounding figure. Marriage offers a man the kind of stability and support that allows him to succeed in all other aspects of life. Think about it: How much more could you accomplish if all the drama from crazy women and bad breakups was replaced by the presence of a loving and caring partner? 

Marriage makes you a better man

If you're a smart guy, you'll choose to be with a woman who is insightful, opinionated and honest. That's the kind of companion who can make you a better person. She can bring out the best in you. She can challenge you to be the best version of yourself. On top of that, through marriage you'll learn the true meaning of self-sacrifice and compromise. In short, marriage will make you a Better Man.

WHY BEAUTIFUL LADIES LOVE BAD BOYS...

Have you ever wondered why THAT guy always seems to get the girls? He's brash, cocky and he marches to the beat of his own drum. He's on (or over) the edge, bordering on rude and doesn't seem to give a damn about anyone but himself - what exactly do women see in a guy like that? 

You consider yourself outgoing, but conservative; interesting but a little shy; you can keep a conversation going, but with the right people... sounds good doesn't it? Why do the bad boys always seem to get the ladies? Here are 7 reasons why:

 

Rebels are confident

That's right. They wouldn't be able to pull off half of the antics they do if they weren't brimming with confidence. Bad boys aren't just confident around their friends, either - their cavalier attitude is in everything they do, from eating their cereal in the morning, to asking the bartender for a cool glass of draft... to talking to the ladies on the balcony at a friend's party. No matter where you look, women find confidence a major turn on.

Rebels are indifferent

Bad boys just simply don't give a damn. They can take it or leave it. That's one reason why they fare well with women. If a woman says no, who cares? They move on to the next one, and they do it with the same verve and maverick attitude as they did the last one. Here is a great quote, "Mr. Right doesn't necessarily care if he is Mr. Right." That's indifference in a nutshell. 

Rebels are exciting and adventurous

Ask yourself, "when was the last time I took a walk on the wild side?" If you are asking yourself that question, then you obviously aren't a rebel. The 'bad boys' are always testing the boundaries and pushing the envelope when it comes to their life - and women can't get enough of it. They find it intriguing. And when you put exciting and adventurous beside the other rebellious traits, it sends women into a tizzy.

Rebels are challenging and mysterious

Women don't dig men that are pushovers. They also don't like men that they can see coming a mile away. Contrary to the belief women like men they can read and men that provide them with a sense of security, women actually LOVE to guess! It is challenging for them, and it is one of the elements of the bad boy that keeps them coming back for more!

Rebels are very masculine

This often goes hand-in-hand with being confident, indifferent, exciting, adventurous... etc. Bad boys are often rugged and in-control. That doesn't mean controlling; they just know how to get what they want. They speak clearly and confidently, they look you in the eye, they are passionate about what they believe in... but most importantly, they still know how to treat a lady. 

Rebels give women a feeling of power

The illusion of control is often more powerful than control itself. Power within a relationship, power outside of a relationship - it doesn't matter - being with a bad boy, encompassing all of the above traits, gives women an air of strength and togetherness. Essentially the confident, cocky bad boy image rubs off a little bit on her - and she laps it up!

Rebels know how to talk to women

If they weren't confident, rebels would not be the chick magnets they are. Instead of indifferent, they would be self-conscious and non-committal (how many women have you passed up because you didn't think you were good enough?) - you see, rebels don't care. Rising to the challenge, living the wild side of life, being something more than conservative, and keeping her guessing about you - and her - it's an explosive combination! And one that is geared to success for the dating male.

The combination makes the talking part almost a given - considering the woman's interest has already been sparked. Talking with them is just the part that reels them in. And the bad boy knows how to tell her just what she wants to hear. 

Rebels know how to talk to women because they are all of the above. Confidence followed up with indifference, sprinkled with a little bit of mystery, intrigue and excitement is what attracts most women to start. That gets you the 'in' to talk with them - they're interested, now you have to show them what you've got. Figuring those things out is the trick. Bad boys use their conversational skills to keep a woman interested and wanting more - and you can too.

UGLY TRUTH: FIRST DATE FASHION MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE..

Makeup Mistakes

Wearing too much makeup on a first date, or any date for that matter, is a major turn off for men, nothing like looking fake with an overly made up face. Try toning it down and going for the natural look. Many department stores offer makeup application tips with your purchase if you don't know how to get that look yourself. 

Neon

Neon clothing is definitely not a great color choice for clothing. Apparently, men are not fans of the neon trend; they find it ugly and just plain weird. Since we are talking color, stay away from pink too; they don't like that either. Men are fussy little buggers! 

Jeggings

Really? Does this actually need explaining? Any woman that wears jeggings outside of her home needs some serious help. They are hideous and a poor fashion excuse for skinny-jean-like pants. Anything stretchy with an elastic waistband is not sexy, sorry. These are only great for that special time of the month when you are bloated. They fall in the same hot category as "mom jeans."

Uggs

Men hate Uggs. They think they are the ugliest footwear on the planet. Don't believe me? Just ask any random dude; he either hates them or has never heard of them. So if you own a pair, throw them in the back of your closet and save them for that special occasion when you are sheep herding in New Zealand. The simple fact that they are considered unfashionable in their native land should be your first clue! 

Strong perfume

Avoid wearing strong perfume on a first date. Some men have allergies to perfumes, and this can definitely put an early end to your first date. If you decide to wear perfume wear a small amount on your wrists; don't drown yourself in it. Most of the time that bottle of designer perfume is not going to impress him; he's probably never heard of it.

Jewelry

Lay off the costume jewelry on the first date. Wearing large pieces of gaudy jewelry is distracting and most of the time just plain ugly. You want him to focus on you and not on all your sparkly bracelets and huge earrings.

If you have face piercings it might be a good idea to leave them out for the first date and avoid face jewelry. Yes, I said face jewelry.

Trashy Outfits

Opt for a subdued look, not the girls’ night out clubbing "Ho" look. Men might like that look on women in general but not the women they are taking on a first date. Does your date want every man to think his date is hot? Sure he does. Do you need to dress like a hooker to achieve this? No. Dressing stylish and classy can give you the desired look your man will love. 

Cleavage

This is a little different from avoiding trashy outfits. Some women wear beautiful and classy clothing but still let the girls hang out. The girls need to be tucked inside with only a little cleavage showing. You need to leave a little for the imagination -- and possibly a second and third date. Avoid wearing plunging necklines and tops that are too tight. A great fitting bra is also a good idea. 

Dressing like a Diva

Wearing stilettos along with trendy, fresh-off-the-runway fashions can cause a man to be overwhelmed and think you are a high maintenance diva. Your girlfriends would die for the outfit, but your date might just think he is in over his head. Depending on where you are going, choose something less flashy and more in his comfort zone. Keep that simple black dress in mind for a dinner date. 

Smile

The best fashion accessory you can have is a beautiful smile, don't forget to wear it! Smiling makes you more approachable and lights up your face. It is definitely contagious and can set the mood for the evening and possibly lead to another date. Some women are very nervous on a first date and are so worried about what they are wearing they forget to smile. Let him know you are having a good time...…c

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DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GIRL AND A WOMAN

A girl knows how to demand. A woman knows how to contribute.

Girls complain too often. A woman will observe for a while,  and then call her man's attention to the
matter arising.

Girls can spend 5k on ice cream. A woman can manage 5k to cook for a week

A girl will wanna keep up with trends. A woman will wanna consider her man's progress.

A girl will never ask how he manages. Caring after him is a woman's priority.

A girl will measure her man's worth by the weight of his pocket. A woman will measure her man's
worth by his level of Wisdom, the fear of God and how disciplined he can be towards finances.
 
A girl is naturally selfish, stubborn, and short sighted. A woman is sacrificial, loyal, future oriented and family minded.

A girl wants everything now. A woman waits until they can both attend to their needs as at when possible.

A girl is not considerate. A woman helps her man to plan. 

You definitely must grow from being a girl to a woman to be able to handle a home. You can't still be a girl and expect to get a man, of course you will get a boy.

Men, do u want a girl for marriage or a woman? Ladies, are you a girl or a woman to your spouse?
 
To each and every WOMAN out there, you rock our world..

Love, Respect And Gratitude.

UGLY TRUTH: WHY MEN ARE DUMPED BY THE WOMEN THEY LOVE MOST....

Toxic Behaviors 

Toxic behaviors are those which can make a person to feel devalued, inadequate, angry, frustrated, sad or guilty. Women want to feel loved and cherished. Clingy behavior from a man can make a woman feel suffocated. Many men establish a set of rules and regulations for their women. If a guy is abusive and controlling always, a woman may feel suffocated and leave him.

Women like men who can stand on his own. If the Guy is a Momma’s boy and do not have an opinion of his own, it can make a girl feel insignificant. Every woman wants her man to value her above others. She wants her man to be confident and stand by her. A woman may not want to be with a man to whom Friends, job or his own family comes before her. Women also dislike men who compare them negatively with his mother.

Hygiene Issues

 Many times, those with hygiene issues may not know it. Those you notice it may not tell them about it because they do not want to offend the person. Not every woman would want to be with a man having body odor or smelly mouth. She probably may have dropped some hints which you failed to pick up.

You need help

Being with someone with habits like drug addiction and alcoholism is not an easy job. Some Guys may promise to change or take expert help, but may not keep their word. Women see no future with such guys and may opt to leave them instead.

You are bad in Bed

 For women sex is an expression of love. Women want their men to be passionate about them and please them on bed. If a man is only concerned about his needs and make no efforts to satisfy his lady on bed, she may dump him. No woman likes to feel used. After all, a healthy relationship is about equality.

She sees no future with you

 Women look for emotional security in relationships. They want their men to show love and affection. Women want their men to be respectful to them and attentive to their needs. No woman likes to feel neglected by the man she loves. They may not want to be with men who take them for granted or treat them like a doormat. Men having commitment phobia may not openly express love for the women. If a woman is serious about marriage, she may not want to continue with such a man.

You are irresponsible

Women like men who take the responsibility. Most women want their men to earn well and keep them in comforts. Women expect the partner to be worth depending in all the needs of life. Most women find men who do not take the responsibility for his words or actions and blame others and situations for all problems a huge turn off.

Parental Pressures

 Love is blind but when it comes to marriage most women want family and social acceptance. Majority of women find it difficult to go against their Parents wishes. If Parents does not approve a Guy, she may dump him and marry a girl of parents’ choice.

She has fallen out of Love

 Mostly in long term relationships, there is the possibility of couples falling out of love after some time. If a woman loses all the excitement in the relationship, she may not want to continue the relationship. It is also possible that she might have fallen in love with someone else.

Trust Issues

 When men get into the secretive mode or gets caught red handed lying, it’s mostly because he is cheating on his partner. No women wish to have a cheating spouse or lover. A woman may not want to continue with a man who has lost her trust on him because of his behavior or actions. A woman may not trust a man who flirts with girls or have too many girl friends. She also may not like to be with a man who does not adhere to the promises or commitments given by him.