Love and honor your
mother.
Learn from her mistakes. It will save you a lot of headache in your
thirties (30s) and beyond.
You are more talented than you’ll ever know.
You don’t need to sleep with your Boss/ supervisor to get a promotion at work
or better grades at school. Burn late night candles; put extra time to study
and practice until you master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does
not kill.
Women can build a strong support network.
Don’t
let few ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage you from
cultivating true relationship with your female friends.
When a man you meet for the first time babbles
about how much he earns working for an oil company and how rich he is, that is
a red flag. He is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to sleep with
you or he is childish. Walk away from deceit.
Make your own money.
Start small. Maintain a
stable bank account. It will keep you out of trouble.
When you meet your Soul mate, don’t forget to
wear your most priceless ornament- submission and humility. But while waiting
for him, don’t cling to any man to rescue you. Some men these days are also
seeking for who will rescue them.
Know your body.
Look at yourself in front of a
full-length mirror at least once a week, naked and after clothed. Know your
body and how it works.
Life is a gift.
But to revel in it, you must be
ready to put a lot into nurturing your gifts/ talents and skills. Start early.
Teenage ended at 19.
Clocking 20 means doing
away with childish behaviour. But it does not mean you should forget to have
fun. You can catch fun and not be dirty.
Learn the basic skills and let yourself grow-
from how to keep your underwear clean, cook, socialize, and network to how to
drive a car.
Don’t do drugs.
It kills. Read books, it
fortifies. Dance as often as you can, it liberates your spirit, soul and body.
Partnership builds bridges.
Don’t ever forget
that.
Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself. Don’t
rely on noodles alone. The cooking skill will be useful in future.
Don’t give up when you fail.
Try again and
again. Don’t give up on education/ learning.
Fear of the future.
It is a state of mind you
must learn to tame. Don’t let fear pull the carpet from under your feet. The
Holy Bible tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,
love and a sound mind.
Let go of past hurts.
You cannot move forward
if you keep looking back. Holding on to bitter experiences and regrets will
stale your future.
Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind to
others, especially those of low estate, and the lowest of low.
You are beautiful
the way you are. Don’t
compare yourself to others.
Prayer is the master key.
Have faith in God
and always have the courage to use your voice wisely. Dream big today. Fear
simply means False Evidence Appearing Real. Enjoy the highs and lows that come
with being in your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow older. Live life to the
fullest and don’t forget to smile always!
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